The decision to marry nowadays is a very hard decision. The increasing number of marriages that end up in divorce is pretty alarming. I smiled to myself when I read a joke about divorce it says “the primary reason for divorce is marriage”, funny but true. During the wedding ceremony you will have to wear a ring which says a symbol of your bond, but facing a divorce case you might somehow ask, does a wedding band bond?

The unique marriage proposal and the efforts in looking for special engagement and wedding ring all add up to the excitement that lovers feel in the course of their path to marriage. The would-be groom is the one who is always on the look for wedding ring style. Engagement bands are the rings that are given to would-be brides. When she agreed to a marriage she is called “engaged”. The next purchase of the men to be married is the wedding band for his bride and him. Bridal wedding band range from affordable to “worth your fortune” diamond settings. The most popular styles of wedding band nowadays are the two-tone or the ones that have two colors either a combination of white gold and gold; gold and silver; platinum and gold and others, based on the wedding ring style of the partners. Wedding band designs are numerous depending on your dictated budget the bride’s ring and men ring are usually bought as package. Some partners choose a ready-made wedding ring but some want a uniquely designed jewelry wedding band.

During the wedding, the minister will ask the partners to wear the wedding band while repeating the wedding promises. Very touching? Yes. In most church wedding that I attended I even saw the partners crying while saying their wedding vows. And yet after several years of marriage they will still break up and end in divorce. I believe that the number of people who really meant what they said on that ring ceremony is still larger than those who don’t. Well, that is just my belief. I stick to my thinking that many people really want to get married when they get married and not just a fancy play. They say that the wedding ring is a symbolic way to show your tie or bond as a married person. Men ring symbolizes that he is taken and that their wives can somehow send a threat to anyone who wish to flirt with their husbands. However, I still believe that the wedding ring is just a symbolic thing of marriage and does not play a part in the actual marriage. I do not say this as an excuse to not wearing our wedding band (it no longer fits my finger) but I strongly believe that more than any material thing, a marriage works because of the two people involved in it that is, the bride and the groom.  A wedding band bonds strongly when there is love and respect between the married people and that is what makes the ring important.

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